Cheating

A topic which has become frequent of late.

I was talking to matt the other day about it, and in his opinion its the one thing he couldn't handle. And i am inclining to agree with him. Although it did make me start to think about why people do cheat, or feel the need to cheat on their partners, spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend.

After contemplation, i began to think, that its the forbidden part which attracts most people. The thrill of doing something they know they shouldn't, and yet still going through with it. Also, the fact that EVERY kiss, touch, or emotion is not allowed, heightens the sensations each of these cause.

Also, it may be that the cheater, doesn't feel they can get everything of what they want from one person. Not saying that either is unsatisfactory in themself, just that one may provide for a physical need, while the other may provide for the emotional needs. This i think is something which causes the most issues within the relationships. That is, not just the fact of cheating itself, but that it is something that is within the person, which should be confronted and dealt with, in ways which can't potentially harm others.

I would also imagine that for a person to cheat, they must feel lonely, frustrated, or unhappy in their current realtionship, or at least some other negative emotion. I'm beginning to think that while cheating is not something to be accepted, its something that needs to be understood, and dealt with, possibly before the acts eventuate.

Well that is one of my speels for today, i shall blog later no doubt, but that shall relate more to me i think, in case anyone is interested.